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Foundry United Rev. |
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“Faith Passages – From
Success to Significance” Sunday, September 28,
2008 |
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Philippians 3: 7-14 Rev. |
We
don’t know where Paul’s career began but we know he was eventually promoted
to become a protector of the faith – a district superintendent. His job was
to correct false teaching and improper practices and keep the synagogues in
line. At some point in his career he was given the important assignment of
serving as district superintendent of
It was
here that Paul encountered a new movement within Judaism, people who followed
Christ. Paul attempted to shut down this new false teaching with great zeal
and passion.
But
something about this encounter changed Paul, and he himself became a follower
of Christ.
In
prison writing to the Philippians, reflecting on his life, Paul lists his
educational and professional and religious accomplishments. “If anyone has
reason to be confident in the flesh, I have more,” he says. (Philippians 3: 4) If anyone has reason to
be secure in their educational, professional, religious and civic
accomplishments, I have more. If anyone has reason to be confident of their
success, I have more, he says.
But,
he adds, I came to a point in my life when I came to regard all my
accomplishment and success as “loss.” I came to see them as “rubbish,” he
says. Rubbish! They became meaningless to me, he says. They became more than
meaningless – they became liabilities because they distracted me from the one
thing that has come to have all meaning in my life – which, he says, is
Christ.
A
number of good people have written books on a life passage that they say
tends to happen in midlife. They call it the transition from success to
significance. Lloyd Reeb’s book is entitled From Success to Significance:
When the Pursuit of Success Isn't Enough.[i]
Bob Buford wrote a popular book Halftime: Changing Your Game Plan from
Success to Significance.[ii]
John Maxwell wrote the book The Journey from Success to Significance.[iii]
Of
course, more than a half century ago Carl Jung made an often quoted statement
about midlife. “I have treated many hundreds of patients,” he said.
“Among those in the second half of life – that is to say, over 35 – there has
not been one whose problem in the last resort was not that of finding a
religious outlook on life.”[iv]
Eric Erickson
taught that in the stage of life he called Middle Adulthood we become
concerned with what he called “generativity.”
“Strength comes through [the] production
of something that contributes to the betterment of society,” Erickson taught,
“so when we're in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness.”
“If we don't get through this
stage successfully,” he said, “we can become self-absorbed and stagnate.”[v]
We
don’t know how old Paul was when the big change in his life happened. I
suspect he was no kid. By the time he wrote I Corinthians during his second
missionary journey, he was already a widower. He was already speaking of
himself as weak, a theme that would come to almost dominate the rest of his
writings – his physical weakness and illness.
But I
am less concerned here about what age it happens in our lives. I find it hard
to judge the meaning of age anymore anyway. Whenever she hears me refer to
myself as middle-aged, Jane asks me how many 122 year old men I know.
I am
not even sure that Reeb and Buford and Maxwell and Jung and Erickson are
talking about exactly the same thing that Paul is talking about. I think it
can happen at different times in our lives. And I think it can happen more
than once.
What
Paul is talking about is reaching a point in life when we stop needing to
prove ourselves…when earthly accomplishments and successes aren’t enough anymore…when
no matter what we have we need something else.
The
superficial stereotype of the transition from success to significance is that
you spend the first half of your life earning money and achieving status and
then the send half giving back. This is not the point, really. Those of us in
professions where making lots of money isn’t the way we get rewarded can be
just as driven by the need to prove ourselves as anybody. Watch what happens
every four years in the
No,
what Paul is talking about in his own life is when accomplishment and status
and achievement and pay grade and resume and the opinion of others and
financial security and power and all the rest just begins to seem pointless
and transitory.
And
the stereotypical way we deal with this is to want to change the
circumstances of our lives…a new job…a new career…a new partner…a move to
another coast…a new hobby…a new car.
Paul
is saying that what he needed was a new savior, a new relationship with God –
that he needed to become a new creation.
This
summer there was a meeting of pastors of United Methodist mega-churches. I
heard one of the participants talk about it.[vi]
There were lots of profound lectures and workshops. During a coffee break a
group of mega-church pastors got to talking about their real problems.
The
problem that they all shared was the temperature in the sanctuary. They all
have large drafty auditoriums. Every Sunday when they are trying to get to
their seats they are stopped by one person after another who asks them to do
something about the temperature in the sanctuary. The problem is half think
it is too hot and half thought it is too cold.
One
pastor told them he’d found the solution. The other pastors were all ears. He
told them that he had installed a thermostat at every entrance to his
sanctuary. He has six thermostats spaced throughout the sanctuary. And above
every thermostat was a sign that said: “Please adjust this thermostat.”
The
other pastors looked at him as though he was crazy. “How can that work?” they
asked. “How do you keep from blowing out your HVAC system?”
“No. No.”
The pastor said. “You don’t understand. The thermostats aren’t connected to
anything. The thermostat that controls the temperature is locked away in a room
where nobody can get to it. It just seems to make people feel better to be
able to turn the dial.”
That’s
what a lot of the changes we try to make in our lives are like…we turn dials
but they aren’t really connected to anything. The change is merely cosmetic.
Changing
our job or vocation or weight or partner or city is like turning the dial on
a thermostat not connected to anything. To really find significance and
meaning in our lives we’ve got to go down deep to the room where the real
thermostat is hidden.
Paul
never met Jesus. He never knew Jesus when Jesus was on earth…never laid his
eyes on him. But he was there when a follower of Christ named Stephen was
stoned to death by a group of fundamentalists whom Paul had helped to incite.
He
was there when Stephen died and he heard Stephen say about those who were
stoning him, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” (Acts 7: 60)
After
that, all Paul’s accomplishments and achievements and successes tasted bitter
in his mouth. He knew he had to become the kind of person who could forgive
his enemies even when they were stoning him to death. And he knew he could
never accomplish that by working harder, or being more religious, or more
successful. He could only do it by letting Christ into the room deep inside
himself where the real thermostat is.
It
may happen when we are younger or older or in between but many of us will
feel a need for more. We’ll think about changing the externals of our lives,
but the only really important change is what happens inside us where Christ
is. May we meet him there.
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[i] http://www.amazon.com/Significance-Adventure-Leadership-Resource-Workbook/dp/1415834989/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1222534591&sr=1-3
[ii] http://www.amazon.com/Halftime-Changing-Your-Success-Significance/dp/0310215323/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1222534493&sr=1-5
[iii] http://www.amazon.com/Journey-Success-Significance-Maxwell-John/dp/140410111X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1222534722&sr=1-1
[iv] C.G. Jung, Modern Man in Search
of a Soul (Routledge, 1961), 264.
[v] Arlene F. Harder, “The
Developmental Stages of Erik Erikson” at http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/organize/Erikson.htm.
[vi] Marl Craig, “It’s Time for a
Change,” Sept. 21, 2008 at http://www.hpumc.org/pages/sermons.